Loneliness

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Loneliness is something most of us experience in life, [if not all of us]

We're primed for connection, and yet the irony of  'social' media is that it can be incredibly unsocial

Yep, it connects us with an amazing circle of people and may fill the need for 'like-mindedness' and support, particularly in smaller communities!

Other times, the 'connection' we seek, can feel like... a bit of an illusion online

We may miss the real-life, face-to-face connection and as our communities grow online, our confidence to meet people starts to diminish

Not all of us belong to big friendship groups. Our friendships may be pretty singular; us knowing each of them and "them" not knowing each other. Which we like, but sometimes we feel we're missing out.

Other times, life gets in the way. Moving, changing jobs, life upheavals, social anxiety, awful at texting back. Sometimes we grow distant or grow out of friendships. Nobody tells us how difficult it can be to make new friends and we may be afraid to talk about feeling like we don't have close friends.

We think we'll be seen as "sad" or "weird", when actually more and more of us feel this way [although we may not guess it by looking at someone's feed...]

Every aspect of our life is related to our priorities, each and every day we live for those priorities without which we are damn uncomfortable living. Adjustments are necessary moves in one's life. each and every soul is beautiful just the situation ruins those beautiful relations.

Eagerness to be loved by someone else more than you love them is the biggest mistake a human being commits in their life nowadays. This virtual world lost the beauty of love. This world is limited to those relationship statuses and breakup stories. 

Nowadays people start loving you the most in the world and losing all their feelings until someone else comforts them. So don't be so serious about any of the relations.

If even a thought of depression passes through your mind just open the picture of your family in your virtual gadget "mobile phone" and look at those who are real forever and will always be at your side and they will never regret your presence in their life. So love them, love yourself and move on!

-Pranavi Darsi

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